Today I have been freaking out because I realized there is a crapload of stuff we have to get done in a very short amount of time. And then, while checking out TheKnot.com I saw a header for “How to Write Wedding Newsletter: send news to bridesmaids, send “hints” to groomsmen, send updates to guests”. Are you freaking kidding me? Who has time to do something like this? Clearly only the woman who is able to quit her job so she can plan her wedding full time…for a whole year.

People care way to much about this wedding stuff. I’m not talking about the commitment part. That’s the marriage, not the wedding. I mean people care too much about stupid little details that nobody else cares about. I’ve decided I’m going to care about as few details as possible, accept that things will not go perfectly, and try to enjoy this. I’ll let you know how that goes.